By: Steven Petrow
How has the Internet changed the way my gay child is bullied?
What’s the best way for our family to handle a bullying situation affecting our child?
It’s important for all moms and dads, regardless of their sexual orientation or that of their children, to allow for an open-door policy between parent and tween or teen. That means setting expectations early – before any issues arise – about talking together about any form of teasing, harassment, or bullying. You don’t want your kid to try to handle this by him/herself. If an incident seems like more than a one-off scuffle, then talk to your child’s teacher or principal as well as to other parents about whether the school needs to institute an anti-bullying program. Note that some states protect our kids under anti-LGBT bullying statutes; federal civil rights statutes may also apply.
How can I teach my child to be more respectful to his/her LGBT peers?
Steven Petrow is the author of the book, Steven Petrow’s Complete Gay & Lesbian Manners.
Great interview and story. We can all learn something.
I really like this article! I talk to my kids all the time about saying “that’s so gay” about things they think are stupid or lame….it matters what you say and the words you choose. Thank you for bringing awareness to this problem. 🙂