On The Road (To Gay Daddyhood) Again!

Foster adopt

By: Henry Amador Today I begin a series of journaling the experiences that my husband Joel and I will be having on the road to becoming second time parents. If these articles shed some insight on what it sometimes takes, or if our footsteps make it easier for another family to follow along than my […]

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A Lesbian Mom Struggle with the Men’s Restroom

when is the right age to let your children go in the men's restroom alone?

By: Shannon Ralph “I see penises.” Imagine this line delivered with the same lack of inflection use by the little boy in The Sixth Sense who said “I see dead people.” This is the reaction I received from my son recently when I let him use a public men’s room. Never mind that we were […]

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Finding Jewish Heritage As An Adult.

Finding religion

By Carol Rood I was born Jewish.  My father was born Jewish. My mother was born a Southern Baptist but converted to Judaism prior to marrying my father, so I was born Jewish.  Being Jewish is passed through the mother not the father.  You might wonder why, (as I did), Jewishness is passed through the […]

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6 Things I Want My Children To Learn

Kids and boredom

By Brandy Black We spent time with my parents, or more commonly the grandparents recently and our children have gotten the Black family fever for good old-fashioned board games, card games, things that don’t require a screen, a speaker or a joystick. We taught them how to play slap-jack and surprisingly our two-year-old twins even […]

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Spotlight Series: Amy and Valerie

Same sex parents around the country

TNF: Tell me about your family. Valerie: Amy and I married “legally” in New Jersey 12/31/13 but had a lovely renewal/celebration in our home state of PA on May 17, 2014 only days before it was legally recognized! We celebrated on our honeymoon We have one amazing son, Grayson (6yo) and are currently TTC with […]

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“I Don’t Have a Birthmark Because I Don’t Have a Dad”

Brandy Black

By Brandy Black “Do you and Mom have birthmarks? “Yes, we both do!” “Do my brother or sister have one?” “No, I don’t think any of you have one actually.” “I know why, because we don’t have a dad.”, my six-year-old daughter says calmly, “all my friends with dads have birthmarks.” “That’s not actually how […]

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An Open Letter Of Lament On Age And Fashion

lesbian fashion

By Amber Leventry Dear Confidently Open Queer Female Sales Clerks at the Mall, I see the way you look at me. Not with the confusion of a less aware straight sales clerk, but with a look of pity. With my baseball cap on, short hair sticking out around my ears, you do not think I […]

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